Different Minds

There is this question that I have been thinking about for a while. It may be an odd question but I am used to think in this stuff :D. I would like to know what you think about it.

The question is "Are men really get afraid of (or don’t prefer) women who have a strong character and women who strongly speak their minds?"

Of course, I don’t mean all men but most of who I met didn’t prefer women who argue with them and this is what I don’t understand. What is the problem if they both have different opinions??

I know that Allah created both, men and women, different but Allah gave both minds to think with. I also know that man is always responsible for woman through being her father, her brother, her husband… etc. But does this mean she got no opinion about anything??

Don’t take me wrong, I am raised in a house where my father’s word is always the final word but there is always place to speak our opinion and talk for long times about them. I know that after I get married, of course I will obey my husband’s word but this doesn’t mean I will keep my mouth shut down and don’t speak my mind :D.

I don’t know if this is a wrong way in thinking or not, but this is how I think. So, What YOU think?